Things not to say now that Andreja has come out as a woman:
'I knew it!'
'It was gonna be that way all along!'
It makes you sound like a nonbinary erasing asshole: not all gender variant/nonbinary/etc. people are going to come out as something down the road, so stop ‘waiting’ for us to transition to something you deem is properly trans.
I’m so pleased that one of my heroes has now made the steps to move on with her life and live happily, but some of my friends, who are trans, are just gloating that they’ve ‘always known’ and it is SHIT.
What do they think they ‘always know’ about me?
The thing that sucks about mental illness is that if you aren’t depressed enough, suicidal enough, bad enough, nobody cares. Nobody cares until you reach their standard, and that standard is when your problem is bad enough to effect them
The amount of people who can relate to this makes me equally incredibly sad and immensely angry
fun fact: I couldn’t get therapy for my eating disorder because I was not thin enough. I would have had to lose more weight in order to get a therapy place.